The True Love says:

I respect you: I see you, as you are, a unique individual-as we are all unique. I accept you as you are and will permit you to develop as God purposes for you. I will not exploit you for my own benefits. I will attempt to know you as well as I can because I know that increased communication and knowledge will enhance my respect for you.

I care for you: It matters to me what happens to you. I am concerned for your life and growth. My desire is to promote your interests even if it means sacrificing my own.

I am responsible for you: I will respond to you, not out of a sense of duty, which obligates me, but voluntarily. Your spiritual needs will motivate me to pray for you. I will protect you, but will guard against overprotection. I will correct you in love, but will attempt not to overcorrect. I will find no pleasure in your weaknesses or failures, and will keep no records of either. By God's grace, I will be patient and will not fail you.
(See1 Corinthians 13).